Sexploration with Monika
Sexploration with Monika
Supperclub Bondage Dinner (August part 2)

These interviews were recorded at the Supperclub Bondage dinner, an evening of exquisite dining, cutting-edge art performance, and use-all-5-senses sensationalism. Dynamic suspension rope bondage with Tom Foolery & Jessi K, slam poet Jamie DeWolf, sex-party organizer Bix Warden, Miss Tickle, and S/m writer Rick Umbaugh. Plus a very provocative scene with dominatrix Alice (of AliceinBondageland.com) and Gumby, the gimp she 'made from scratch!' After the scene, I have meaningful and intense interviews with both Alice and Gumby to investigate what they get out of their sexual power exchange, and the connection between submission and unbridled sexuality. Photos of the bondage dinner: August Dinner or  Best of Bondage Dinner   Join us for an extra-epic night in December 3rd with live suspension bondage, festively fetishtastic holiday mischief, and 4 courses of outrageous beauty! rsvp@supperclub.com

Direct download: BDAugustpart2.mp3
Category:podcasts -- posted at: 4:44pm PDT

Supperclub Bondage Dinner (August part 1)

These interviews were recorded live  at the Supperclub Bondage dinner, an evening of exquisite dining, cutting-edge art performance, and use-all-5-senses sensationalism. Dynamic suspension rope bondage with Tom Foolery & Jessi K, slam poet Jamie DeWolf, Mission Control sex-party organizer Bix Warden, Miss Tickle, and S/m writer Rick Umbaugh. 

 Can you picture a six-foot tall man wearing only  head-to toe full-body black latex trying desperately to neatly sip his soup with a funnel gag? This is called predicament play! Would you be shocked the performance or scene where a woman in a sparkle blue ballgown leads her bound bimp around by a septum-pearcing and invites the audience to play "mary had a little lam with electruc shocks to his testicles?" He bellowed lice a bull, vut dous he live it?  Introducing Dominatrix  or Domina Alice (of AliceinBondageland.com) and Gumby, the gimp she 'made from scratch!' After the scene, I have meaningful and intense interviews with both Alice and Gumby to investigate what they get out of their sexual power exchange, and the connection between submission and unbridled sexuality. If Gumby doesn't like pain. why does he consent to his?

Photos of the bondage dinner: August Dinner or  Best of Bondage Dinner  

Direct download: BD0810_podcast.mp3
Category:podcasts -- posted at: 4:58pm PDT

Female Ejaculation, Tantra, & a journey from sexual assault to sexual freedom

Did you learn in sex ed that women can ejaculate? Do you know how to give your lover feedback when something isn't working for you without hurting their feelings? How do we get from feeling wounded sexually to sexual freedom? We'll discuss Female Liquid Orgasms with Squirtxspert Tallulah Sulis, Sacred Love Tantra with Evalena Rose, and interview the author of "Soul Laundering," where a rape & murder drives an epic journey of sexual awakening, healing, and finding one's own power. If you dare to listen to this show, you'll learn more about connecting to the present moment through sexual connection, and how to give well-received suggestions when your lover needs to do that just a little bit more to the left (or lighter, or softer, or harder, or faster, or slower, or deeper, or with more lube, or whatever). Plus, you'll learn more about female ejaculation, or G-Spot Orgasms with the juicy Ms. Tallulah Sulis. Author Ishtar Raizine bares her soul talking about her novel "Soul Laundering," we'll talk about sexual healing and get a glimpse of the not-too-distant future of human sexuality where everybody wins and has big juicy consensual multiple orgasms with the gods and goddesses that are YOU. Awoman and Amen! This is one juicy, sacred, sexy hour of Sexploration with Monika.

Direct download: monika_show3.mp3
Category:podcasts -- posted at: 4:26am PDT

Inches for Charity a cockumentary, and Erotic Breath Play w/ Dr. Kemi

Inches for Charity, a "cockumentary" about penis size, intends to raise money for an orphanage in South Africa for children with AIDS. We spoke with director Nicholas Sher about "the penis rack" - the only proven method for permanent penis enlargement, and Dr. Kemi Ando just happens to be in the studio to tell us if in fact stretching your penis is really safe. Token Straight Guy Jim Stone gets double-bonus points for trying on the penis rack. Divine-Interventions.com (makers of holy objects for your pleasure parts) has donated the craziest and most beautiful silicone wang I have ever seen, and yes it is holy. Meanwhile, Dr. Kemi Ando, who did her dissertation on erotic breath play, is chock-full of helpful information, as then she tells us some harm-reduction tips on how (if you are going to play with breath control or choke your partner) not end up brain-damaged. We also have a very interesting conversation about breath play and sitting-on-your-face and nitrous oxide, aka whippits or "hippy crack." Jim gets even more gold stars when he surprises us about what he did while wearing the extender. What a guy!!! Dr. Kemi and I are impressed and giggling at the same time. Somehow we manage to get back on track with Dr. Kemi's events like "Cum for a Cause" and the Society of Janus "Munch." 

Direct download: 032610e2.mp3
Category:podcasts -- posted at: 1:51am PDT

Kinky Salon: of boobies and cupcakes (part 2)

Kinky Salon is San Francisco's most colorful sex-party. Are boobies and mini-cupcakes a recipe for fun or is that just the sugar talking? Sexploration with Monika host Monika Thomas continues her journey into Kinky Salon, a sex party in San Francisco--and there's lots of frosting. Monika infiltrates the secret backroom bedroom of Kinky Salon founders Professor Violet and Polly Glamourous, where people - get this - people are ACTUALLY sleeping. It is shocking. We discuss how playing Dungeons & Dragons leads to throwing sex parties for a living, boobies (again), and "the Beauty Engine" a pet social engineering project. Polly and I talk about the importance of creating an environment where people feel safe to experiment. Professor Violet even channels "Monsieur LeFrite," a deranged French Fry who defenestrates swingers who linger too long in "the pink room" (yes, it *is* decorated to be reminiscent of the interior of a vagina), but that's not until well, well after midnight.

Direct download: KSseg2drymono.mp3
Category:podcasts -- posted at: 3:23am PDT

Kinky Salon: the Sweetheart's Ball (part 1)

Join Sexploration with Monika at San Francisco's friendliest and most faaabulous sex party. Join us on the dancefloor and in the jungle room for a frank and honest discussion of feminism, boobies, female ejaculation, group sex, freedom of expression, gay-pride paintball warfare, sex-positivity, dirty poetry, gender identity, running away to the sex-club that is family and circus, and...

Direct download: KSseg1mono.mp3
Category:podcasts -- posted at: 10:30pm PDT